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The world according to Didion.
While I was studying for my undergrad degree — as a working adult — I encountered the author who would change the way I looked at the world. I was already a fan of Steinbeck, Hemingway, King (Stephen), T.H. White, and poets such as Dylan Thomas, Emily Dickinson, and Maya Angelou, among others. But I… Continue reading
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The work life.
I have worked since I was 13. That summer I worked for my father at his building supply. He was an entrepreneur who built a large construction business from nothing. We moved to Houston from south Georgia when I was a toddler, and he started working first as a carpenter, then as his own boss.… Continue reading
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Stay in the moment.
That is the best advice I received as I started out on the cancer road last spring. It might sound like hollow advice to you, something a person tosses around casually these days, but it truly gave me something to hang onto during the worst days. Rather than being an idiom on a plaque in… Continue reading
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Reflections on the last day of chemo.
I have found equanimity with cancer. And today is my last day of chemo. Continue reading
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I’m still here.
A few weeks ago, I lost my friend Jordan. He was going through treatment for cancer at the same time as me, and we really leaned on each other and talked through all our hopes and fears while enduring difficult treatment. I was on Adriamycin and Cytoxan, plus a bunch of steroids and antinausea drugs.… Continue reading
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Everyone deserves affordable healthcare.
Healthcare is a human right, not a privilege. Continue reading
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So you think it’s just like the flu. An open letter to Courtney Harris.
For people who are not well-versed in science and who believe that personal freedom takes precedence over public health, I think one of two things have to happen to convince them to take this seriously. Continue reading
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Sucky Days and Side Effects.
Today I’m getting through the suffering a minute at a time. The Buddha told us that the first Noble Truth is: “There is suffering.” That is as true as it gets in the greater world and in my personal world right now. The second Noble Truth is that there is a cause for suffering. In… Continue reading
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The evolution of my son.
In 2014, my son Sean was in a bad relationship. It didn’t start out as bad, but it became evident rather quickly that it was heading in a bad direction. Before he met her, he really was in a good place. He had recently lost 100 pounds and had a great job. He went to… Continue reading
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Dancing with Pagans
Inhale the positive, exhale the negative! Continue reading
About Me
A writer and solitary soul in the mountains of Western North Carolina.